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Life is an uncertain subject. It is good sometimes, and sometimes, it’s an examination hall. Life is that dilemma which is very complicated as well as a little bit easy.
Sometimes, we meet a person who is loyal to us, but we don’t know much about him/her because he/she is a stranger to us. Here the question is, why should we believe in a stranger? While we don’t know him. Yeah, good point. We don’t believe in a stranger. But is it just one solution to stay away from strangers?
How should we avoid them?
How should we deal with them?
How should we save our-self from others?
Why the stranger is giving me an opportunity?
How could he be loyal to us?
Many more questions, mind running, mind thinking.
Now, move back, start from the beginning- in different paths of life, we have to meet a lot of people, to whom we know and to whom we don’t know. This is our compulsion to have connections with others for different affairs. This is necessary to have a connection. So, here, the point is that either we should believe in a stranger or not. As a wise man learns from others’ experiences and his own experiences. So, he would be able to decide that is the other person’s deserving belief. If he can show you his comfort zone during gossips, then you must make a sensible decision and should concede his point. Otherwise, must give him a shut-up call because our respect is much important.

Now, move towards the questions.
How to deal with a stranger:
It is quietly depending upon you; you should be confident in front of another person. Don’t underestimate yourself. You must listen to him, but do whatever you consider better.

Should we avoid any stranger:
Don’t need to avoid it. Firstly, understand that how’s the behavior he is showing to you or what’s the behavior with you. If he is good with you, then you must take time. Otherwise, give him a shut-up call. This is also, how you can save yourself from others’ disrespecting.

How could he be loyal to us?
This is the question that confuses us- why the other person is loyal to us. He can, but why is it so, the simple and sweet answer would be that he is a sincere person, not just with you but with a lot of people. He may be loving and caring, who just believes that if he spread happiness among people: he, definitely, would get success and calm in his life. He won’t be selfish; he will be having a good sense of spreading happiness among people. That is what you have to judge.

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